Statement

What I lived was not promiscuity, contradiction, or confusion.

It was a long-term, clearly defined, exclusive relationship entered after years of discernment and upheld with consistency on both sides.

There was one man. There was one woman.

The terms were spoken, respected, and maintained over seven years.

No overlap. No substitutes. No chaos.

Distance did not mean disorder.

Exclusivity did not mean ownership.

Sexuality was negotiated with care, consent, protection, and mutual respect—not consumption.

I was neither a wife nor a commodity.

I was sovereign, choosing exclusivity on my own terms while living, creating, and remaining independent.

Since that relationship ended, there has been no one else.

That alone should dispel the fantasies people project when they lack the capacity to understand structure without control.

Those who reduce this to labels reveal only their own limitations.

I do not live by their categories.

— Olivia